Essential Questions to Ask When Touring Assisted Living Facilities
- Melody Murphy
- Oct 10
- 8 min read

Choosing an assisted living community for your loved one is one of the most important decisions you'll make. While touring facilities can be overwhelming, asking the right questions helps you evaluate each community thoroughly and make an informed choice. This comprehensive guide provides the critical questions you need to ask during your visits.
Important Note: The experts at Melody Senior Advisors already have answers to many of these questions for communities throughout the Largo, St. Petersburg, and Clearwater area. Their knowledge can save you time and help you focus your tours on the communities that best match your needs.
Licensing, Accreditation, and Reputation
Licensing and Compliance:
Is this facility licensed by the State of Florida?
What is your license number, and can I verify it?
Have there been any licensing violations or citations in the past three years?
Can I see your most recent state inspection report?
Are you accredited by any national organizations?
Reputation and Track Record:
How long has this community been in operation?
Who owns and operates this facility?
Can you provide references from current residents' families?
What is your staff turnover rate?
How do you handle complaints or concerns from residents and families?
Staffing and Care Services
Staff Qualifications and Training:
What is the staff-to-resident ratio during the day? At night? On weekends?
What training do staff members receive, especially regarding dementia care?
Are staff members trained in CPR and first aid?
How often does staff receive continuing education?
Do you conduct background checks on all employees?
Is there a registered nurse on staff? If so, what hours?
Is there a medical director or physician associated with the community?
Care Services Provided:
What specific assistance with daily living activities do you provide?
How do you handle medication management and administration?
Can residents keep and self-administer their own medications if capable?
How often are residents assessed for changing care needs?
What happens if my loved one's care needs increase significantly?
Do you provide physical, occupational, or speech therapy?
How do you coordinate with outside healthcare providers?
What happens if a resident needs temporary skilled nursing care?
Overnight and Emergency Care:
How many staff members are on duty overnight?
What is the protocol for medical emergencies?
How quickly can staff respond to emergency calls?
Do you have an emergency generator?
What is your evacuation plan for hurricanes or other emergencies?
Living Arrangements and Amenities
Apartment and Room Options:
What floor plans and sizes are available?
Can I choose or personalize my loved one's apartment?
What furnishings are provided versus what we need to bring?
Are apartments equipped with kitchenettes?
Can residents bring their own furniture and decorations?
How accessible are apartments for wheelchairs or walkers?
Are grab bars installed in bathrooms?
Does each apartment have an emergency call system?
Is there adequate storage space and closets?
Common Areas and Amenities:
What common areas are available for residents?
Do you have outdoor spaces, gardens, or walking paths?
Is there a library, computer room, or game room?
Do you have a beauty salon or barber shop?
Is there a chapel or space for religious services?
Can residents have visitors at any time?
Are there private areas where families can visit?
Is parking available for family members?
Safety and Security
Security Measures:
What security systems are in place?
Are entrances and exits monitored?
How do you prevent residents from wandering off the property?
Do you have security cameras? Where are they located?
Is there 24-hour security staff?
How do you handle visitors after hours?
Safety Features:
Are hallways well-lit with handrails?
Is flooring non-slip throughout the building?
How often do you conduct fire drills?
What fire safety systems are installed?
Are apartments and common areas wheelchair accessible?
How do you prevent falls, and what happens when a fall occurs?
Dining and Nutrition
Meal Services:
How many meals per day are included?
What are your dining hours, and is there flexibility?
Can I see a sample menu for a week?
How do you accommodate special diets or food allergies?
Can residents order food outside of regular mealtimes?
Is assistance available during meals for those who need it?
Can residents have guests join them for meals? Is there a charge?
Where are meals served? Are there multiple dining options?
Who plans the menus, and is there input from residents?
Are snacks available throughout the day?
Nutrition and Quality:
Is there a dietitian on staff?
How do you ensure residents are eating adequately?
Where does your food come from? Is it prepared on-site?
Can I taste the food during my visit?
Do you monitor residents' weight and nutritional status?
Activities and Social Engagement
Activity Programming:
What types of activities do you offer daily?
Can I see this week's activity calendar?
Are activities mandatory or optional?
How do you encourage residents to participate?
Do you offer activities for different physical and cognitive abilities?
Are there opportunities for exercise and fitness?
Do you plan outings or trips outside the community?
Are religious or spiritual activities available?
Do you bring in outside entertainment or speakers?
How do you celebrate holidays and special occasions?
Social Opportunities:
How do you help new residents get acquainted?
Are there clubs, groups, or committees residents can join?
How do you handle residents who prefer to keep to themselves?
Do you have intergenerational programs with children or schools?
Can residents maintain their hobbies and interests?
Healthcare Coordination
Medical Services:
Can residents keep their current doctors?
Do physicians make visits to the community?
How are medical appointments arranged and coordinated?
Who accompanies residents to outside medical appointments?
Is there an additional charge for transportation to appointments?
How do you communicate with families about health changes?
What pharmacy do you work with?
Can residents use their own pharmacy?
Health Monitoring:
How often do you check vital signs or conduct wellness checks?
What symptoms or changes trigger notification to family or doctor?
How do you manage chronic conditions like diabetes or heart disease?
Do you provide hospice or end-of-life care?
What happens if a resident needs to be hospitalized?
Costs and Contracts
Pricing and Fees:
What is the monthly base rate?
Exactly what services are included in the base rate?
What services cost extra, and how much are they?
How much notice is required before monthly rates increase?
Are there different levels of care with different costs?
Is there an entrance fee or community fee?
Are there any other fees I should know about?
Do you accept long-term care insurance?
Do you accept Medicaid? If not, what happens if a resident runs out of money?
What is your refund policy if my loved one needs to leave?
Contract Terms:
Can I review a copy of the residency agreement before committing?
How long is the contract term?
What is your notice period if we decide to leave?
Under what circumstances can you terminate the contract?
What happens to the security deposit?
Are rate increases capped or limited in any way?
What additional assessments or fees might be charged?
Policies and Procedures
Admission and Move-In:
What is your admission process?
How long does it typically take from application to move-in?
What medical information or assessments do you require?
Can my loved one do a trial stay before committing?
Do you have a waiting list?
How do you help with the moving and transition process?
Daily Life Policies:
What are the visiting hours?
Can residents have overnight guests?
Are pets allowed? What is your pet policy?
Can residents smoke? Where?
Can residents drink alcohol?
What is your policy on resident relationships and privacy?
Can residents come and go freely, or are there restrictions?
How do you handle personal laundry?
Is housekeeping included? How often?
Communication with Families:
How often will you communicate with family members?
Who is our primary point of contact for questions or concerns?
How do you notify families of incidents or health changes?
Can we access information about our loved one online?
Do you hold regular family meetings or education sessions?
How do families participate in care planning?
Special Services and Features
Specialized Care:
Do you have a dedicated memory care unit?
Can you accommodate residents with specific medical conditions?
How do you handle residents with challenging behaviors?
Do you provide respite care for short-term stays?
Can you accommodate couples with different care needs?
Additional Services:
Do you provide transportation for shopping, errands, or activities?
Is there a resident council or family council?
Do you offer technology support for residents who want to use computers or tablets?
Can residents have phone and internet service in their apartments?
Do you coordinate with local community resources?
Observing During Your Tour
Beyond asking questions, pay attention to what you observe:
The Environment:
Does the community appear clean and well-maintained?
Is there any unpleasant odor?
Is the temperature comfortable?
Are residents' rooms personalized and homelike?
Does the décor feel warm and inviting or institutional?
The Residents:
Do residents appear clean, well-groomed, and appropriately dressed?
Do they seem engaged and happy?
Are residents interacting with each other and staff?
Do you see residents sitting around with nothing to do?
The Staff:
Are staff members friendly and attentive?
Do they interact warmly with residents?
Do they know residents by name?
Are they patient and respectful?
Do staff members seem rushed or stressed?
How do staff respond to residents who need help?
The Atmosphere:
Does the community feel like a home or an institution?
Is there activity and life, or is it quiet and empty?
Can you envision your loved one being happy here?
Does it feel safe and secure?
How Melody Senior Advisors Can Help
This extensive list of questions can feel overwhelming, especially when touring multiple communities. That's where Melody Senior Advisors becomes an invaluable resource for families in the Largo, St. Petersburg, and Clearwater area.
They Already Know the Answers: The experts at Melody Senior Advisors have established relationships with assisted living communities throughout Pinellas County. They already know the answers to many of these questions, including staffing ratios, pricing structures, specialized services offered, recent inspection results, community reputations, and which facilities are best suited for specific needs.
Pre-Screen Communities for You: Rather than scheduling tours at every facility in the area, Melody Senior Advisors can narrow down your options based on your loved one's specific needs, your budget, location preferences, and care requirements. They only recommend communities that meet your criteria, saving you valuable time.
Guide Your Tours: When you do visit communities, Melody Senior Advisors can accompany you on tours, help you ask the most relevant questions, point out important details you might miss, and help you evaluate what you're seeing objectively.
Provide Objective Comparisons: After touring several communities, it's easy to feel confused about which one is best. Melody Senior Advisors can help you compare your options side-by-side, clarify differences in pricing and services, and identify which community offers the best value and fit for your loved one.
Completely Free Service: All of Melody Senior Advisors' services are provided at no cost to families. They're compensated by the communities themselves, so you get expert guidance without any financial obligation.
Taking the Next Step
Armed with these questions and the support of experienced advisors, you can approach assisted living facility tours with confidence. Remember, you're not just looking for a place for your loved one to live—you're choosing a community where they'll be safe, cared for, and able to thrive.
Don't navigate this important decision alone. The team at Melody Senior Advisors is ready to help you find the perfect assisted living community for your loved one.
Ready to start your search? Contact Melody Senior Advisors today for a free consultation. Their experts will help you understand your options, pre-screen communities, and guide you through the entire process.
Contact Melody Senior Advisors:
Phone: (727) 600-3917Website: www.melodysenioradvisors.com
Serving families in Largo, St. Petersburg, Clearwater, and throughout Pinellas County with expert guidance in finding the right assisted living community.
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